Parenting is the hardest job we’ll ever do. And parenting a sensitive child who’s struggling can feel like an endless emotional marathon.

But what if raising your sensitive kid with big emotions could actually feel GOOD? Enter Raised Resilient with Dr. Hilarythe parenting podcast I wish I’d had as a first-time mama!

This podcast exists to support you as you parent your highly sensitive child — start at the beginning, or search below for the episode that’s most relevant for you right now!

Welcome to Raised Resilient with Dr. Hilary — empowering support for parents of sensitive kids with big emotions.

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Why Gentle Parenting Isn’t Working for Your Sensitive Child

(& 3 Shifts to Help You Parent More Effectively!)

Gentle parenting is often imagined as staying calm, speaking softly, and always keeping our cool—but that version of it just doesn’t work for highly sensitive kids. In fact, if you’ve ever tried to white-knuckle your way through frustration, you know it doesn’t help.

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Rethinking Child Therapy: 5 Reasons Why It May Not Be the Best Approach for Sensitive Kids

Have you ever considered therapy for your sensitive child, hoping it might be the key to managing their meltdowns and learning to regulate their big emotions? If so, this episode offers 5 compelling reasons to reconsider this intervention — from a play therapist & parenting specialist.

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“You’re the Worst Mommy Ever!”: Navigating Children’s Mad Feelings

Anger is one of the trickiest emotions we deal with as parents. When our kids are angry – especially *at* us – it can be SO tough to stay calm and regulated and to respond in a way that feels good!

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15. Why We Shouldn’t Call Kids Shy (& How to Help a “Shy” Child!)

Were you the "shy" kid, always hiding behind your mom when you met someone new? If so, you probably get how painful it can be to hear someone call you "shy." In this podcast episode, Dr. Hilary unpacks "shy" behaviors; she shares what's REALLY going on when kids act shy, why it's actually a GOOD thing, and how to support child who's feeling hesistant.

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(BONUS Episode) Talking About Hard Things: Supporting Children in the Aftermath of a School Shooting

We often think that we'll hurt our kids by sharing too much information about "adult topics." But when something awful happens in the world, our kids pick up on our stress, and it's scary for them to navigate these moments without us helping them understand WHY everything feels so stressful. In this podcast episode, Dr. Hilary empowers you to talk to your kids about hard things with confidence.

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13. How to Deal with Your Child’s Frustration: 6 Tips to Build Frustration Tolerance

As adults, we're decently competent at most tasks we do throughout the day. But kids are constantly being asked to learn and try new things, which can lead to a whole lot of frustration. How do we help our kids tolerate this frustration and persevere with the task at hand? In this podcast episode, Dr. Hilary gives you six tips to do just that.

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12. “Shepherding Through”: How to Handle Meltdowns When Life Gets in the Way

When your child is having a meltdown as you're walking out the door for an appointment ... or refusing to get in the car for school ... or unwilling to get ready for bed, it's normal to feel stressed and defeated. But Dr. Hilary's got you covered. In this podcast episode, she shares a super effective strategy for handling these tough parenting moments.

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11. Expert Tips On How To Deal With Your Child’s Aggressive Behaviors

It can be infuriating when our kids hit, kick, push, spit, and bite; aggressive behaviors are some of the hardest parts of parenting. But these behaviors are also a normal and healthy part of child development, and in this podcast episode, Dr. Hilary teaches you how to handle these behaviors with confidence.

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8. Respectful Parenting Isn’t Permissive Parenting: How to Set Healthy, Effective Boundaries That Will Set Your Child Up for Success

One of the most common criticisms of respectful / gentle / conscious parenting is that the kids "rule the roost." But permissive parenting is actually really harmful for kids, and none of these approaches actually advocates for that. Instead, parents need to set healthy, consistent boundaries. In this podcast episode, Dr. Hilary shows you how to set boundaries with your kids with confidence.

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