Parenting is the hardest job we’ll ever do. And parenting a sensitive child who’s struggling can feel like an endless emotional marathon.
But what if raising your sensitive kid with big emotions could actually feel GOOD? Enter Raised Resilient with Dr. Hilary — the parenting podcast I wish I’d had as a first-time mama!
This podcast exists to support you as you parent your highly sensitive child — start at the beginning, or search below for the episode that’s most relevant for you right now!
Welcome to Raised Resilient with Dr. Hilary — empowering support for parents of sensitive kids with big emotions.

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Why Gentle Parenting Isn’t Working for Your Sensitive Child
(& 3 Shifts to Help You Parent More Effectively!)
Gentle parenting is often imagined as staying calm, speaking softly, and always keeping our cool—but that version of it just doesn’t work for highly sensitive kids. In fact, if you’ve ever tried to white-knuckle your way through frustration, you know it doesn’t help.

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Rethinking Child Therapy: 5 Reasons Why It May Not Be the Best Approach for Sensitive Kids
Have you ever considered therapy for your sensitive child, hoping it might be the key to managing their meltdowns and learning to regulate their big emotions? If so, this episode offers 5 compelling reasons to reconsider this intervention — from a play therapist & parenting specialist.

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“You’re the Worst Mommy Ever!”: Navigating Children’s Mad Feelings
Anger is one of the trickiest emotions we deal with as parents. When our kids are angry – especially *at* us – it can be SO tough to stay calm and regulated and to respond in a way that feels good!
23. The Power of Storytelling: A Tool to Use When Your Child Gets Hurt (& in Other Stressful Moments)
What should you do when your child falls down and gets hurt? Some say not to make a big deal, and others say to follow the child's lead. In this podcast episode, Dr. Hilary shares why telling the story of what happened is actually one of the most important things you can do when your child gets hurt.
22. Making Sense of “Clingy” Behaviors: What’s Really Going On When Your Child Won’t Leave Your Side
We all have days where our child won't leave our side. It's exhausting, right? In this podcast episode, Dr. Hilary reveals what's REALLY going on in these moments and empowers you to handle them with confidence.
21. What to Do When Your Child Interrupts: Why it Happens & How to Respond
Have a child who's constantly interrupting adult conversation? Check out this podcast episode, where Dr. Hilary reveals what's really going on and how to deal.
20. Why Are My Kids Always Fighting? Strategies to Set Siblings Up for Success (& Why You Don’t Need to Stress!)
Sibling rivalry is a (really hard) part of raising multiple kids. In this podcast episode, Dr. Hilary reveals the two mindset shifts you NEED in order to navigate sibling struggles with confidence.
19. The Magic of Independent Play: 4 Steps to Getting Your Child to Play Alone (& Why You Should!)
If you're feeling tethered to the playroom floor and exhausted by your child's constant requests to play, you need to listen to this podcast episode. In it, Dr. Hilary shares how to get more alone time as a parent (while also meeting your child's developmental needs!).
18. Kids & Screens: Tips for Healthy, Balanced Screen Use When Technology is Everywhere
Kids love screens, but as parents, we know we need to set some limits around screen time. How much screen time is too much? How do we set appropriate screen limits? How can we ease the transition away from screen time when it's over? In this podcast episode, Dr. Hilary answers all of these questions and more.
17. 4 Tips for Managing Summer Boredom (& Why You DON’T Need to Push Academics Over the Summer!)
If your child gets bored sometimes, you're not alone. And actually, it's a GOOD thing! In this podcast episode, Dr. Hilary shares why it's so important to actually let our kids feel bored ... and what we can do to support them in these moments.
16. How to Get Your Child to Listen: 3 Steps to Gain Cooperation & Build Collaboration
If you feel like you're constantly making requests that your child ignores, you're not alone. In this podcast episode, Dr. Hilary shares her 3-step process for getting kids to actually listen and cooperate.
15. Why We Shouldn’t Call Kids Shy (& How to Help a “Shy” Child!)
Were you the "shy" kid, always hiding behind your mom when you met someone new? If so, you probably get how painful it can be to hear someone call you "shy." In this podcast episode, Dr. Hilary unpacks "shy" behaviors; she shares what's REALLY going on when kids act shy, why it's actually a GOOD thing, and how to support child who's feeling hesistant.
(BONUS Episode) Talking About Hard Things: Supporting Children in the Aftermath of a School Shooting
We often think that we'll hurt our kids by sharing too much information about "adult topics." But when something awful happens in the world, our kids pick up on our stress, and it's scary for them to navigate these moments without us helping them understand WHY everything feels so stressful. In this podcast episode, Dr. Hilary empowers you to talk to your kids about hard things with confidence.
14. How to Help a Child with Anxiety: Strategies for Building Resilience
When our kids are worried, we often try to reassure them that everything's okay. In this podcast episode, Dr. Hilary reveals why this approach actually makes things worse for an anxious child (and what to do instead to build resilience!).
13. How to Deal with Your Child’s Frustration: 6 Tips to Build Frustration Tolerance
As adults, we're decently competent at most tasks we do throughout the day. But kids are constantly being asked to learn and try new things, which can lead to a whole lot of frustration. How do we help our kids tolerate this frustration and persevere with the task at hand? In this podcast episode, Dr. Hilary gives you six tips to do just that.
12. “Shepherding Through”: How to Handle Meltdowns When Life Gets in the Way
When your child is having a meltdown as you're walking out the door for an appointment ... or refusing to get in the car for school ... or unwilling to get ready for bed, it's normal to feel stressed and defeated. But Dr. Hilary's got you covered. In this podcast episode, she shares a super effective strategy for handling these tough parenting moments.
11. Expert Tips On How To Deal With Your Child’s Aggressive Behaviors
It can be infuriating when our kids hit, kick, push, spit, and bite; aggressive behaviors are some of the hardest parts of parenting. But these behaviors are also a normal and healthy part of child development, and in this podcast episode, Dr. Hilary teaches you how to handle these behaviors with confidence.
10. Praising Children: How to Praise Your Child in a Healthy, Confidence-Building Way (& What to Avoid!)
Not all praise is created equal, and in this podcast episode, Dr. Hilary shares what the research says about praise and how to praise our kids in a healthy, confidence-building way.
9. Emotion Regulation for Kids: 4 Reasons Validating Your Child’s Feelings Isn’t Working (& What to do Instead!)
You've probably heard that it's important to validate your child's big feelings ... but when you do, it seems to fall flat. In this podcast episode, Dr. Hilary shares four reasons why this happens -- and what to do to help your child build emotion regulation skills.
8. Respectful Parenting Isn’t Permissive Parenting: How to Set Healthy, Effective Boundaries That Will Set Your Child Up for Success
One of the most common criticisms of respectful / gentle / conscious parenting is that the kids "rule the roost." But permissive parenting is actually really harmful for kids, and none of these approaches actually advocates for that. Instead, parents need to set healthy, consistent boundaries. In this podcast episode, Dr. Hilary shows you how to set boundaries with your kids with confidence.
7. Parent’s Responsibility: What Do Our Kids ACTUALLY Need From Us? (& 3 Things They Don’t Need!)
What do our kids ACTUALLY need from us? In this podcast episode, Dr. Hilary simplifies children's needs so that parents feel empowered to meet these needs with confidence.
6. Learning to Say Sorry: Why You Shouldn’t Force Your Kids to Apologize (& What to Do Instead!)
We all want to teach our kids to be respectful, responsible humans, and apologizing when we mess up is a really important part of that process. But HOW do we actually teach our kids to say sorry and mean it? In this podcast episode, Dr. Hilary shares why forcing kids to "go say sorry!" isn't the answer.
5. "Sitting with Big Feelings": What It Really Means & How It Builds Emotion Regulation
What does "sitting with big feelings" really mean? And how does it build emotion regulation? What do our kids REALLY need in order to be able to regulate (i.e., do the right things with) their feelings? In this podcast episode, Dr. Hilary answers these questions and more.