Parenting is the hardest job we’ll ever do. And parenting a sensitive child who’s struggling can feel like an endless emotional marathon.
But what if raising your sensitive kid with big emotions could actually feel GOOD? Enter Raised Resilient with Dr. Hilary — the parenting podcast I wish I’d had as a first-time mama!
This podcast exists to support you as you parent your highly sensitive child — start at the beginning, or search below for the episode that’s most relevant for you right now!
Welcome to Raised Resilient with Dr. Hilary — empowering support for parents of sensitive kids with big emotions.

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Why Gentle Parenting Isn’t Working for Your Sensitive Child
(& 3 Shifts to Help You Parent More Effectively!)
Gentle parenting is often imagined as staying calm, speaking softly, and always keeping our cool—but that version of it just doesn’t work for highly sensitive kids. In fact, if you’ve ever tried to white-knuckle your way through frustration, you know it doesn’t help.

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Rethinking Child Therapy: 5 Reasons Why It May Not Be the Best Approach for Sensitive Kids
Have you ever considered therapy for your sensitive child, hoping it might be the key to managing their meltdowns and learning to regulate their big emotions? If so, this episode offers 5 compelling reasons to reconsider this intervention — from a play therapist & parenting specialist.

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“You’re the Worst Mommy Ever!”: Navigating Children’s Mad Feelings
Anger is one of the trickiest emotions we deal with as parents. When our kids are angry – especially *at* us – it can be SO tough to stay calm and regulated and to respond in a way that feels good!
Parenting Reflections: How to Handle Birthday Meltdowns with Your Highly Sensitive Child (& Managing Your Own Emotions)
If your child has ever struggled with meltdowns & big feelings on their birthday or a holiday, you don't want to miss this episode, where I share how I navigated birthday meltdowns with my own child.
80. Making Sense of Your Highly Sensitive Child’s Challenges: The #1 Reason Behind the Meltdowns
Ever wondered why your highly sensitive child loses it over the smallest things? Or why they have perfectionistic tendencies? Or can’t take no for an answer & always have to be in control? These struggles all have the same root cause — tune in to find out what that is!
Parenting Reflections: How to Regroup When You’ve Had a Rough Parenting Day (Yelling, Losing Your Cool, and Feeling Shame & Guilt)
In this episode, I share about my own rough parenitng day — where I yelled at my kids multiple times — and how I regrouped, repaired, and helped everyone recover and get back on track.
79. Managing Separation Anxiety: Expert Tips for When Your Highly Sensitive Child Won’t Let You Leave Their Side
If you can’t leave the house without your highly sensitive child losing it with a complete meltdown, you’re not alone. In this episode, I share why that happens and how to help.
78. 5 Not-So-Obvious Signs Your Child is Highly Sensitive
In this episode, Dr. Hilary talks about what high sensitivity is and is not and shares 5 not-so-obvious signs that often point to high sensitivity in a child.
77. Why I’m Taking a Short Break from Podcasting (& Why You Should Take a Break from Something Too!)
Dr. Hilary shares why she is taking a short break from podcasting, when I’ll be returning, what exciting things you can expect from this show once I return, and why taking a break is sometimes the most important thing we can do.
76. Practical Tips to Make Time for Exercise as a Busy Parent with Lauren Chante
As busy parents, we’re all trying to fit in self-care around the 24/7 job of caring for our kids. It’s not easy, and sometimes it can even feel impossible to make time for things like exercise when you’re raising little kids. Dr. Hilary talks with Lauren Chante about how you can ensure that you move your body each day, even if you feel like you have zero time and no childcare.
75. How to Know if Your Child is Kindergarten Ready (& Why “Kindergarten Readiness” is Probably Not What You Think It Is!)
Kindergarten readiness has become a whole thing. There are flash cards, online programs, and books all designed to ensure that your child is ready for kindergarten (and the messaging is that you should get started pretty much as soon as your kid can walk). It’s enough to make your head spin! Dr. Hilary tells you why you actually don’t need books, programs, or flash cards.
74. 4 Reasons You Should Let Your Child be Bored (& How to Deal with Boredom)
Most parents dread the inevitable “I’m bored” from our kids. Those words can conjure up feelings of guilt for us as parents, and we might feel compelled to jump in and suggest a list of activities or organize a craft or put on a movie. Dr. Hilary shares four reasons why you should resist the urge to jump in and instead just let your child be bored.
73. 4 Tips to Encourage Your Child to Play Independently More Often (& For Longer!)
As parents, we all want our kids to be comfortable with independent play – but how do we actually get there, especially if your child is resistant to the idea of playing alone? Dr. Hilary shares four tips to help you encourage your child to play independently more often and for longer.
72. Traveling with Kids: 5 Tips to Make Your Next Family Trip Less Stressful
Traveling with kids can be amazing … but it can also be stressful. Long car rides, plane trips with strangers, schedule changes, busy days, and later bedtimes can spell challenges, especially with toddlers and preschoolers. Dr. Hilary shares five tips to make your next family trip feel less stressful and flow more smoothly.
71. The Benefits of Unstructured Outdoor Play (& How to Get Your Child Outside!) with Allana Robinson
Getting kids outside is magical -- and getting kids outside without a structured plan is amazing for everything from mood to sleep to building executive functioning. In this podcast episode, Dr. Hilary talks with Allana Robinson about how to build more unstructured outdoor play into your child's daily routine.
70. Water Safety for Kids: 5 Tips to Keep Your Child Safe (& Why This Topic Is So Important to Me!)
Swimming and water play is so much fun! But water safety is really important, especially considering that drowning is the leading cause of death for children ages 1 to 4. In this podcast episode, Dr. Hilary shares 5 tips to keep your child safe in and around water this summer!
69. How to Get Your Child to Talk to You (Even About the Hard Stuff!)
We all want our kids to come to us when they're struggling. But how do we get our kids to actually open up and tell us what's going on in their lives? In this podcast episode, Dr. Hilary shares 5 tips to help you learn to really listen so that your child will talk to you about anything (even the hard stuff!).
68. What to Do When You Don't Like Your Child's Friend
In this week’s episode, I answer a listener struggling with how to best support her 7-year-old daughter, who has a friend who’s kind one day and mean the next. I dive into how we can best support our kids through difficult friendship dynamics – and I share the one thing we should NOT do if we want our kids to keep talking to us about their friendships.
67. How to Find Balance in Parenting, Life & Hormones with Dr. Brooke Kalanick
Parenting requires a LOT of us, and to do it in a way that we feel good about, we have to prioritize our wellness. But how do we do this in the midst of the chaos of raising kids? In this podcast episode, Dr. Hilary talks with Dr. Brooke Kalanick -- naturopathic medicine doctor and women's hormone expert -- about finding balance in parenting, life, and our hormones.
66. How to Introduce Your Baby / Child to a New Pet: 4 Tips for a Smooth Transition
If you're bringing a new furry family member home, you might be wondering how to support your child through the transition and give both your pet and your child the foundation for a new healthy relationship. In this podcast episode, Dr. Hilary shares 4 tips for a smooth transition.
65. The #1 Negative Thought Pattern that Keeps Parents Feeling Stuck & Disconnected
In this week’s episode, I share the #1 negative thought pattern that I’ve seen in my work with parents. This negative thought pattern keeps parents stuck in blame and shame, makes us feel disconnected from our child, and renders it nearly impossible to parent effectively. Sounds pretty undesirable, right? Well, don’t stress – in this episode, I teach you how to identify when you’re in this negative thought spiral and how to pull yourself out of it!
64. 4 Practical Ways to Manage Parenting Stress with Elizabeth Andreyevskiy
In this week’s episode, I talk with Elizabeth Andreyevski, a stress coach who helps overwhelmed parents reduce their mental stress so they can respond to their kids with patience & calm. We talk about why parenting feels so stressful, and Elizabeth shares 4 proactive ways to feel less stressed & prioritize our own needs without guilt.